8 fights a day!
Siblings constantly fighting at home? Here's what you can do about it
Hi there,
If you have more than one kid, this may sound familiar:
“He’s copying me!”
“She’s touching my stuff!”
“He’s touching me!”
“She’s doing it again!!”
This doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. In fact, one study found that siblings who are close in age have about eight arguments a day.
It’s natural to want to step in, figure out who’s right, and decide on a consequence.
But it helps even more to step in before things get heated. If you notice everyone is cranky, tired, or crowded into a small space, try a little humor or a quick distraction. That can ease the tension before it turns into a fight. Little kids, especially, have a hard time staying upset once they start laughing.
Catching that moment is a skill, and it's one you can build, because those squabbles aren't just annoying – they're learning opportunities. The same conflicts that drive you crazy are chances to teach your kids the people skills they'll use for the rest of their lives.
Helping Siblings Get Along gives you proven ways to reduce conflict, help your kids communicate, and build a strong relationship that lasts long after childhood. It’s $75 this week only (regular price is $99).
Get it by August 1. After that, the price returns to $99.
Warm wishes,
Dr. Eileen